Audience

I want to say something before I start posting.  In my posts, I will talk about some of my writing process.  I want to discuss different aspects, and just express myself.  I will also be sharing articles I wrote, and possibly include other information I find online that I might consider important.  These articles and information cover a lot of ground.

Some are for people who are curious and just starting out learning about BDSM.  Other articles are more advanced, geared for people in the lifestyle who want to learn more, or research certain topics.
I will tell you that I don't think I know everything.  I will never say that!  I have learned a lot and I will share what I learned.  if I do not know something, I research it.  Some of the things I discuss I have tried out, and others I have not; I will tell you when it is something I have not experienced myself.

I am a Dominant, but, I have tried the toy and implements before using them on my sub.  I am not oblivious.  I believe that is the right thing to do, and it also helps me gauge how to work with different implements.  It is my opinion that it is also not fair to the sub to use a paddle on him I have never tried, and cause him pain without knowing how it feels.

Having said that, I am glad you are here, and wanting to know more and learn more.
~Sam